Thursday, August 30, 2007

Today was Poopy Day

As I usually do, I called home to check on the kids to see how their last week of summer vacation was going. As soon as my son pushed the speaker phone button, my 6 year old said that "Today is poopy day". I asked her why and what follows is a recap of the events.

I asked why today was poopy day and K went on to explain. C pooped in his pullup and decided he didn't like the feeling of it so he pulled it out of his pants and placed it on the floor. Where my mother was at the time is a mystery. When the poop hit the floor, my 8 year old was going to the bathroom and didn't see it so she stepped in it. When she saw what she stepped in, she thought our dog, Sasha, had an accident. My mom comes to the rescue with B and sees C's hands covered in poop which has now smeared on the floor and on him. Mom gets everyone cleaned up.

I started laughing as K was the true reporter by letting me know that she only saw what happened and didn't get any poop on her. B said it was gross and K said that today is now known as "Poopy Day".

In all of the conversations that I have had with my kids and imagined to have with my kids, this one wasn't even on the map.

Hope you had a good day.

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Saturday, August 25, 2007

Here's the latest scoop on Michael Vick


Here's the latest..




It doesn't look too good...

Have a great weekend!!

Beamer 319

Thursday, August 23, 2007

My girls saw a ding dong!!!

When I am at work, I will call home to see what the gang is up to and to talk to them on the speaker phone. Our son has mastered pushing the speaker phone button. When I asked what they were doing, our 6 year started speaking very quickly and excitedly that she saw a boy's ding dong!! I asked my mother what were they doing?

She stated that they were watching the Once Upon A Potty for Him video so C would understand about going potty. The video shows a little boy doing all of the potty business. I explained that it was aimed a little boys and since they were girls, you have different parts which they already knew. I guess they didn't think about the potty issue. This was my first conversation with them and I guess it could be catergorized as a "sex talk".

C thought the video was gross and mom said that he was placed on the potty several times and still nothing as been deposited.

In all of my thoughts regarding conversations with my children, I never thought I would hear that my daughters saw a ding dong.

Hope your Tuesday was as just as eventful as this.

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

My son helps me diet

I was running late today as my coworkers and I were having a discussion regarding the NAACP and Michael Vick. We couldn't believe the stance of the NAACP. The group consisted of 2 caucasion, 1 african american and 1 puerto rican. All women, so needless to say, I left work late.

When I got home, dinner was ready and I was hungry so I fixed my plate which was filled with turkey loin and macaroni and cheese. The kids had already eaten as we thought they would have church tonight but it was cancelled. So I am eating in the living room and trying to finish my book when the kids come bounding in with McDonald cookies. My 4 year old son sees me and comes over to me. He starts eating my dinner. I asked him if he ate dinner and he said yes. He loves macaroni and cheese and the next thing I know, his hands are in my food eating. I started alternating giving him a forkful and then me so his hands would stay off of my plate.

Macaroni and cheese was demolished in no time. So I start eating my turkey. The next thing I know he is opening his mouth and saying "PEASE". Again, I alternate feeding him and myself. With his help, I ate 1/2 my dinner and decided that this was his way of watching how much I ate. Once the food was gone, it was time for C to get ready for bed so off to the tub he went and off to the kitchen I went to get a cookie.

I guess I deserve not getting to eat my dinner as I was running late. When we eat together as a family, I have a 80% chance of eating my dinner without C helping me finish. I will keep you posted on how my new diet comes along. Maybe I could market this type of diet plan with Disney. They turned a $4 million dollar movie into a $2 billion profit.

Have a great night!

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Karma is a wonderful thing!!

Today started out rather rough as I told my husband to "drop dead" this morning as he started off my day with a conversation rather than "Good Morning". I am not a morning person so asking me to make decisions or to have a discussion before I have even opened my eyes is not a good thing but good things have happened this week. Today, we received a second blessing which is awesome.

The first blessing that we had was C has season tickets to the Redskins and he gave 4 of the preseason tickets to his friend G. We had to FED EX them Thursday so G would get them Friday for Saturdays game. G's mother in law is a big Steelers fan and she is battling breast cancer so Chris sent them. Chris loves tracking items so when he discovered that the tickets shipped from Midlothian had been lost in Ashland and were supposed to be arriving in Maidens, he wasn't happy. He called FED EX who said that they would have to see what happens and couldn't do anything until Monday. Chris called FED EX field and had them reprint the tickets for G. Monday, Chris calls FED EX and FED EX is reimbursing Chris the cost of the tickets plus shipping. So in a week, we should receive about $190. We didn't put a value on the shipment but since Chris could prove the cost of the tickets, FED EX is reimbursing him. So WOOO HOOO, we have extra money coming to us. This is how God blesses us. We give without regret and receive with appreciation and gratitude.

The second blessing we received was today. C was fitted for his leg braces a few weeks ago and we will pick them up this Friday. When Chris changed jobs, we changed insurance coverage so we weren't sure what our out of pocket expense would be. Our out of pocket expenses usually are around $350. C has had leg braces since he was 6 months old so when he grows out of braces, we get him fitted for new ones so its expensive. Chris called the orthotics place today and the receptionist told us that our insurance covered 100% of the costs. This is the first time that we don't have to pay. We now have received an extra $350. God has blessed us by giving us close to $500. Its so wonderful to feel so blessed.

I wanted to share this with you so you will know that God does bless you. It may not be the way that you expect it. I am not a name it and claim it type of person. I believe you keep your heart faithful to God and when you least expect it, He shows up in the most wonderful way.

Have a wonderful night,

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Monday, August 20, 2007

Dept. of Justice wants Porn Stars Names

I was watching Dan Abrams tonight and he was talking about how the Department of Justice wants all Porn Stars to give them their names, aliases and other information in order to help stop the Kiddie Porn industry. The interesting part of the report was that he had Ron Jeremy and a conservative whose name escapes me to be the speaking heads.

This "conservative" mentioned 10 names of porn movies during his 3 minutes of the interview. Ron Jeremy on the other hand actually was intelligent in the discussion. RJ stated that in his 30 + years in the porn industry there has only been 2 incidents of where under age girls used fake ids to get their start (Tracy Lords and someone else). RJ stated that just like applying for a job, you have to show proof of age and eligibility to work.

Mr. Conservative was so busy espousing names of porn movies , he asked RJ what does the industry do to ensure that underage kids don't get involved. RJ had already answered this question.

Here's my thought, with everything we need to get done in this country such as getting sexual offenders information updated on the Internet databases (currently some states are 6 months behind) and Homeland Security, does DOJ really have the manpower to do the research? Or do they want to look at porn on company time? Or since the porn industry is a multi billion dollar industry, are they looking to see if everyone has paid their taxes or if not, collect it?

I am not a porn advocate but I would rather have my tax dollars be more productive. The kiddie porn business can be tracked online without tapping into the Adult Porn Industry. Lets be better stewards of the tax dollars DOJ and do something more worthwhile.

Have a great night!

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This is crazy but I'm gonna do it!!

As you know, I started this blog back in May because my position was eliminated due to a business decision. My resume is on every imaginable website. I am registered with 2 temporary agencies and I have gone on a total of 3 interviews. I want to find a permanent employer so I am going outside the box and hoping you, Internet Friends, will help me find a job. I do not want to register with anymore temporary agencies unless its for a direct hire position. I have posted my resume within this blog and if you know someone who could use my expertise, please forward it to them. Thanks for your help!!



Belinda M. Wray
belindawray2003@yahoo.com

Professional Profile
Commercial Construction Administrator, Operations Manager, Property Manager
22 years Accounting Experience
8 years commercial real estate contract experience
Enforced Insurance Requirements
Worked with Owner Controlled Insurance Programs
Managed 14 commercial buildings
Oversaw Daily Operations for Utah based Holding Company
Administered $124,000,000 in Commercial Construction Contracts
Developer Relation Skills
Professional Accomplishments
Commercial Real Estate
· Audited, prepared cash flow reporting and administered commercial industrial contracts
· Processed $4,000,000 in VHDA/HUD Commercial Loans, 100,000,000 in Construction-Perm/Tax Exempt Bond financing in multifamily housing
· Accumulated, analyzed limited partnerships, property management companies, market analyses, environmental reports to assist developers getting their loans approved and processed.
· Property Manager for 3 commercial tenants, 6 residential tenants and a retail store for out of state owner.
Management and Supervision
· Hired, trained, supervised, evaluated staff for retail store.
· Interviewed, ran credit and personal references and reviewed leases for commercial tenants
· Handled all issues regarding tenants, employees, and neighboring businesses.
· Trained, managed and inspired leaders in the AWANA Program at Mt. Pleasant Baptist Church
Contract Administration
· Initiated and review leases for commercial and residential tenants
· Enforced contract terms, conditions and requirements.
· Paid contractors based upon negotiated pricing and payment terms.
· Released retentions upon final approval on construction projects.

Work History

Operations/Property Manager
Wellotson Holdings, LLC, Fruit Heights, UT 84037
11/2005-4/2007
Construction Auditor
Accountemps, Richmond, VA 23219
9/2003-11/2005
Administrative Assistant
United Dominion Realty Trust, Richmond, VA 23219
8/2000-11/2001
Executive Office Assistant
General Services Corporation, Richmond, VA 23225
9/1999-8/2000
Education
Junior Level
Virginia Commonwealth University, Richmond, VA

References
References are available upon request.

If you accept the challenge, I would be highly appreciative.

Here's to happy hunting,

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